It seems like just yesterday we were driving to the temple to get married, taking these photos, dancing at our reception, and enjoying our honeymoon in the British Virgin Islands! One whole year. So crazy how time goes so quickly.
Marriage really isn’t that difficult tbh, it’s mostly just the best. I think I say that for a few reasons.
Nick is the world’s easiest person to get along with/live with.
My expectations for marriage were realistic aka I didn’t expect it to fix anything. We are just same old us, but it totally rocks because we get to live together & see each other everyday.
I’d lived on my own for a while and quite frankly that was much more lonely.
We help strengthen each other during the hard times, and enjoy being together during the good times.
I saw this little questionnaire on my friend’s Facebook wall, so let’s do this puppy:
Who’s older? Nick
Who was interested first? My sweet Nicholas knew he loved me from the start.
Married? Yes! One year baby.
Who makes the most mess? Probably equal, but we do a dece job of keeping a clean house.
Better singer? He would say me, but he has a great voice & sings songs he makes up every day!
Better Driver? Same IMO.
Spends the most? Him… buying things for me 😉
Smarter? Him, but hey- we are both smart in our own ways.
What are your middle names? William and Taylor
Whose siblings do you see the most? Probably equal. Mine fly for free and his live nearby!
Do you have any children? Not yet!
Did you go to the same school? Yes. We both went to BYU, but didn’t meet until Texas!
Who is the most sensitive? Me, but he is a softy.
Where do you eat out most as a couple? Cafe Rio if in Utah. Chuy’s in Dallas.
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together? Finland, Copenhagen, Hawaii
Who is more patient? Him.
Who does the most cooking? We never see each other during the week because of work, so if we ever cook, we cook together!
Who is more social? Well, I guess me. Although, Nick tries to claim he’s an “introvert” but frequently finds himself entertaining the group, so very unclear about that.
Who is the most stubborn? Me…and that is final!
Where was your first date? Potbelly’s for cookie ice cream sandwiches! Mmm… 🙂
Who has the bigger family? Well, we both have huge families. The more the merrier people, the more the merrier.
Do you get flowers often? Awww…yes I do!
Who does the laundry? We each do our own.
Who drives when you are together? Nicholas! If I drive, he speaks with a British accent and calls me Janet…
Who picks where you go to dinner? ME! Unless Nick vetoes it. But then I still pick.
How many kids do you both want? 4-5
It’s been a great year, and I look forward to the future with you, Nick!
Our 1st Valentine’s Day married was sweet. My little love sure knows how to make me happy. Roses and a box of fresh cookies, brownies, & ice cream w/ a card that says- Do NOT share these with anyone! ? He knows I just wanted a box all to myself. ?
But really, he is so sweet. ❤️ He is the best at cheering me up and making me laugh when I’ve had a hard day at work. He will sing to me and it makes me happy. We are so glad we have each other to encourage each other, to support one another, to laugh together, and to love like we’ve never loved before. Having him as my forever Valentine is a beautiful thing. Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetheart.
Happy Valentine’s Day to all you wonderful readers, too! Thanks for the love and support you give me.